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OCT-29-06
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Forum: Prayer Requests and Answers
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Thank you so much for your thoughts. I can honestly say no that i do not love him. I also really feel guilty for divorcing my daughters dad. Even though I was extremely unhappy and felt Bibicially
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OCT-28-06
19:12:59
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Dear Sister: True love is not predicated totally on feelings. It seems that you are waiting for the right feeling to strike. As yourself the question-- "Is this the man I would love to spend eternity with?" This will supply you with the right answer. This marriage is between you and him, not between your daughter and him. I once married with the motive of helping the children, but I suffered much and wished I had never done it. It does not pay off. True love is overwhelming. You will feel good, positive, and revitalized. If this man brings no energy to you, no revitalizing, not "heart pumpings" perhaps you might want to look at this again. Mrs. Ellen G. White tells us that our ONLY motive for marriage should be love. That's right -- LOVE. The question also comes-- "Do you love him?" Don't allow other considerations to tilt your scale. Your daughter will grow up, and if you are left with a man who doesn't "pump your heart" you will be left with perhaps a dud. And then too, ask God to make it plain to you. He will -- I know He will -- Some advise--- Member -- Shaline
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OCT-28-06
19:2:21
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Friends4Life
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You know the devil want you to be alone and unhappy or with someone who is going to bring you down and away from God I have heard this so Many times it make me sad. I to am going through somethig like this. I traveled over 3600 miles to meet a lady I had know for over a year. Only for her to say I don't like you like that. It amazing how women can find a man who is all wrong for them and find that emotional attraction and go with it. But when they find one that have that mental attraction they can't close the deal so to speak. Well have you know that against everything God teaches and we learned as Adventist. The bible teaches the heart is wicked above all things who can know it. We must search our head first then the heart follows that what my Pastor toughed me. I guess what I am saying is if this man is truly as good as you say you would find a way to love him. Ellen White speaks of thinking with our heads before we make that choice. The devil is a liar the devil what is to make this decision base on lust rather then intelligence which God has said so I know God would leave you hanging. But you must put away you understanding and lean on Gods. Then and only then will you love. Think about this if we can Love our enemies why can't we love a friend. With Love
Eddie
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OCT-28-06
17:7:18
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I HAVE BEEN IN AND OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS SINCE THE DIVORCE OF MY HUSBAND 8 YEARS AGO. I HAVE BEEN ENGAGED SEVERAL TIMES AND HAVE BROKE IT OFF FOR VARIOUS REASONS (CHEATING,DISHONESTY,ECT). I HAVE BEEN SEEING A SDA MAN FROM OUR CHURCH FOR ABOUT A YEAR. MY DAUGHTER REALLY REALLY LIKES HIM AND HAS BECOME VERY ATTACHED TO HIM. I HAVE HAD OTHER CHANCES IN THE PAST TO BE MARRIED AND THROUGH PRAYER AND PATIENCE SOMEHOW MY EYES ARE ALWAYS OPENED TO THE REAL THEM B4 THE WEDDING.
MY PROBLEM IS THIS..I HAVE TRIED FOR SO LONG TO DEVELOP A FEELING OF LOVE FOR HIM AND I JUST CANT I FEEL NO LOVE FOR HIM AT ALL. I HAVE COME TO THE POINT WHERE I FEEL MY DAUGHTERS STABILITY AND HAPPINESS IS FAR GREATER THEN MY OWN AND WANT TO STAY FOR HER BENEFIT ALONE. I DON'T WANT TO TEAR HER APART ANYMORE BY BOUNCING FROM RELATIONSHIP TO RELATIONSHIP. SHE REALLY NEEDS HIM SO MUCH MORE THEN I DO. I HAVE SHARED MY FEELINGS WITH HIM AND HE SAYS HE WILL WAIT AND PRAY THAT I DEVELOP LOVE FOR HIM. HE IS A WONDERFUL MAN. I FEEL HORRIBLE..FOR SO LONG I PRAYED FOR SOMEONE WHO WOULD NOT HURT MY DAUGHTER AND I AND WOULD REALLY LOVE US. I HAVE IT NOW AND I DON'T FEEL THE SAME FOR HIM.
PLEASE PRAY FOR ME. I WELCOME ANY ADVISE.
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